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10 THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE HAVING A 2ND BABY

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☕️ 10 THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE HAVING A 2ND BABY☕️

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10 POINTS LISTED:

1. Enjoy the time before the 2nd kid comes
2. Baby products work differently for different babies
3. Your body is going to be more different afterwards then first
4. More expensive
5. Do expect your baby to act the same as your last baby
6. Time is gone
7. Things become a lot more complicated
8. Dedicate special time for first child
9. You get overwhelmed a lot, but’s it ok
10. Everything gets better💕💕

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Ioana's Tales

Ioana's Tales . 16 hours ago

Quality content! Thank you :)

darkeyedlegend

darkeyedlegend . 6 days ago

I am pregnant with my second (a little boy)...my daughter is turning 2 in Feb. She just hit terrible 2s in the last month or so and doesn't wanna sleep. I am stressed about having a newborn and my daughter that doesn't wanna sleep.

Folasade Osibodu

Folasade Osibodu . 1 week ago

Excellent video

Flame Lames

Flame Lames . 2 weeks ago

My first pregnancy wasnt a walk in the park, I'm absolutely terrified to have another child. Later we found out he was autistic which was predicted at 28 weeks gestation. I just don't see putting my child or myself through that again. My son is lovely enough

Sweet jane

Sweet jane . 2 weeks ago

Hello beautiful When i heard you talking about postpartum depression i had tears in my eyes I really feel you because i lived the same hard moments and I would love to share my experience with you

K B

K B . 2 weeks ago

I am sorry your first born didn't satisfy that carnal desire to be a parent , as for me all I can say is that I am so blessed that my fist born (and only) did, and still dose, many years later! She simply completed my desire for offspring....

fred1407

fred1407 . 2 weeks ago

I'll add a 👶 for every like this comment gets

Odelia Cohen

Odelia Cohen . 2 weeks ago

Waiting for my second one anyday now... This Helpes me so much.Thank you

Whimsy Journal

Whimsy Journal . 3 weeks ago

Thanks for sharing :) I think the most obvious things aren’t said, but totally need to be! I was so naive when I had my first, didn’t event THINK about what recovery was going to be like. So happy to see that someone is addressing the “obvious” you had some great points :) hope your family is doing great!

N ni dhiomsaigh

N ni dhiomsaigh . 1 month ago

I want a second child but my husband doesn't. I think he's being selfish. He's only 2. We're older parents so only small window left but he won't change mind, we even went for counselling. Trying to accept it now but think it's been forced on me. I feel huge resentment towards him because of this but realise 1 is a blessing when some can't have any. But discuss this before marriage, we didn't specify/state numbers ourselves tbh just said were wanted kids & to me that was always 2. Sure they are expensive, less time, more pressure, harder with 2 but to me anything worth having is hard. Compromise & sacrifice are part of life. Nothing I hear will put me off wanting a second.

Matthew Marzullo

Matthew Marzullo . 1 month ago

I’m sorry, is her kids name Libia?

Steves Vanderpool

Steves Vanderpool . 1 month ago

My first son is a brute and we have not slept through the night for the last year. I am expecting the next kid to the be the polar opposite 🤣😊

Kendall R

Kendall R . 1 month ago

Man.. :( This was not encouraging at all, it actually fueled every fear and anxious thought I already have in my 3rd trimester with my 2nd. I know you did't mean it that way, and I'm sure it's all true, but do you have another video on how you actually deal with the challenges and anxiety? Does anyone have a more positive/practical video recommendation to watch alongside this?

jessica lamarre

jessica lamarre . 1 month ago

This mom seems like she just needs to whine... lol 2 kids is not that hard... i dont get why she makes it sound do hard. One of her kids is in school all day long 🧐

Tamara Protić

Tamara Protić . 2 months ago

As far as I can see the finance problem is connected to insurance. Where I live we don't pay for any medical procedures whatsoever, so I think the finance one is more so related to USA than to having 2 babies.

Lotte

Lotte . 2 months ago

Kinda like useful, but like kinda also like dont kinda know, like kinda video that, like, kinda distracts me like... from the topic. #stayinschool 🤦🏼‍♀️

Our Midwest Journal

Our Midwest Journal . 2 months ago

Completely agree with your statement about doing things with your children, individually. That's what my entire channel is devoted to!

bryonnajones

bryonnajones . 2 months ago

I like this girl

Michelle J

Michelle J . 2 months ago

My son is 1 and I'm still struggling to lose the weight 🤕😖 and yes I breastfed for 7 months, didnt make a difference

Camellia Cross

Camellia Cross . 2 months ago

Lol im pregnant with number 3 and they will be 2yrs and 10months apart. My 1st child turning 10 so having a newborn and a 7yr old was tough cause I didn't want to make her feel left out. However it's way easier now that she is older..Number 3 will be here end of March and now this scares me...Lol but thanks for keeping it real..

Blueberry 60

Blueberry 60 . 3 months ago

Think very vey well before to have secon child

Blueberry 60

Blueberry 60 . 3 months ago

Second baby will terns your first kid life to a hell and yours too

jenna____

jenna____ . 3 months ago

I change every day depending on my two year old mood. He is so strong willed and stubborn he is exhausting. I don't know if i could even survive it lol

Amada Jimenez

Amada Jimenez . 3 months ago

We have been contemplating having a second and I honestly don’t want to. I don’t want to be prego again. I would only do it for my son but the more I learn about it the happier I am with an only child. Thank you for this video and your honesty!

kemzyacco

kemzyacco . 3 months ago

This video just scared me, my first son was an angel now am scared that my second son will be the opposite :-(

James Pittman

James Pittman . 3 months ago

Terrified of having a second baby. I'm just going to try to be as healthy as I can be. My son Hunter is 3yrs old he'll be 4 in March. Right now I'm about 8weeks pregnant.

Isa L

Isa L . 3 months ago

My first was such an easy baby, but my second child is more needy, he cries more, he is always cranky,he wakes up a lot at night compared to my first baby. Definitely it is harder for me, very stressful.. I feel like I have not payed as much attention to my 4 year old because this baby is more difficult. I am hopeful things will get better with this second baby :/

Glenis goodchild

Glenis goodchild . 3 months ago

I’m 14 and I’m pretty sure my family thinks I’m pregnant because these are the only videos I watch 😂

Brittany Harris

Brittany Harris . 3 months ago

It’s funny because I remember watching this video while I was pregnant with baby #2. Now she’s 1 month old and baby #1 is 3yrs old and I’m living everything you’re saying. WHEW IM BEAT! Don’t feel bad because my children do the whole tag team needy time too and I don’t get ANY time for myself. 2 children takes time to get used to but once you get a routine going it gets better lol

Rim Jhim

Rim Jhim . 3 months ago

I want a second baby for my kid. He is soooo lonely. But my husband doesn't want. I Feel terrible for my child. No one to play n share... 😂he just sits with his tab all day.

Stephanie Acosta

Stephanie Acosta . 4 months ago

Don’t watch if pregnant with baby # 2 🤣😭😭

jjgal92

jjgal92 . 4 months ago

It was hard to click on this video as im scared ill freak out..but here i am..better to know now then too late!! I just found out im expecting number two!

mkgcbeauty

mkgcbeauty . 4 months ago

im so scared i just found out i was pregnant with my second baby and lets just say the excitement hasn't kicked in yet.

Patricia Chicco

Patricia Chicco . 4 months ago

My husband and I are trying to have another baby. We have a two year old and I’m scared because my lil one has so much energy. Even at daycare the teachers say he won’t stop running and doesn’t fallow rules he gets bored easily and he likes challenging toys. It makes me nervous but I don’t want my son to be an only child. My husband is an only child and I’m the youngest of three. My son stops when he’s asleep. Lol thank you because sometimes I feel like I’m the only mom going through that overwhelming feeling.

Krista King

Krista King . 4 months ago

Yes I got a week old and a one year old and it made my life change but for me it's for the better my husband and I gotten alot closer I got closer with my 1 year old also.

issa m æ ł ï şş ā

issa m æ ł ï şş ā . 4 months ago

I'm pressured to having a second baby. I simply do not want another one. I finally found a balance in my life and I don't want to loose that.

Diana Hussain

Diana Hussain . 4 months ago

thank u so much. I had a crappy day with my two kids today and this put it in perspective for me.

Bertha Lightbourne

Bertha Lightbourne . 4 months ago

Maybe if you had started with 10 first it would've been better but as it stands 1-9 makes me say OK... One kid it is

Sarah Pedro

Sarah Pedro . 4 months ago

Omgs that is exactly my fear. I adore my son to a ridiculous degree. Im really afraid I wont love my second baby as much as my boy.

Years Gone By

Years Gone By . 4 months ago

great twist.

ash

ash . 4 months ago

I don't like being a "mom" even though I LOVE my daughter with all me heart.

ash

ash . 4 months ago

I don't want to have a second but I also don't want to die and leave my daughter alone in life to grieve the loss of her parents.

Souks onlyjust

Souks onlyjust . 4 months ago

I’m pregnant with my second baby my son is 8 months. I don’t feel any anxiety or anything but I do wonder sometimes if I’m finding it difficult now with the sleep deficiency and constant fatigue how the hell is it going to be after 😳 *gulp* I want 4 al together. Wish me luck guys 😂😂😂

amna khatoon

amna khatoon . 4 months ago

Thanks for your insights! Highly appreciate :)

Sony Pix

Sony Pix . 4 months ago

My daughter is 14 and I am having baby number 2 and I am beyond excited !!! We are having a boy and I am due at the end of this month 💙 I say to each their own we are definantly ready for baby number 2 I am 35 years old and I am so excited 👣

ShiPolar's Life Bloopers

ShiPolar's Life Bloopers . 5 months ago

My first baby is so amazing that I feel like my second one might be a monster. :( I am scared that I can't love another person as much as I love my son.

Bianca Gomez

Bianca Gomez . 5 months ago

Thanks! It is Ok to hide in the closet!

Truly Lizzy

Truly Lizzy . 5 months ago

Huge THANK YOU ! I’m 39 weeks and I have a 1 year old !!! Stressing out about everything

ladyvixenja

ladyvixenja . 5 months ago

Thank you so much for this video, I have a 4 month old and 2 year old and I experience everything you talked about, it's just helpful to know I'm not alone and that it gets better

꧁ZuZara꧂

꧁ZuZara꧂ . 5 months ago

I wish I watched this before going for my second... 😊😕😬



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